Debra Allen:
CLASS OF 1967
McFarlane Elementary SchoolClass of 1967
Detroit, MI
Coleman High SchoolClass of 1981
Coleman, WI
Mackenzie High SchoolClass of 1970
Detroit, MI
Lakeview High SchoolClass of 1970
St. clair shores, MI
Lakeview High SchoolClass of 1970
St. clair shores, MI
Debra's Story
hullo, hullo to all the blasts from my past who might eventually pass this way. it HAS been a long time, but i still think back to mcfarlane and my days on meyers road often enough...hate the way folks scattered so i lost touch with nearly everybody i knew from way back then.
i finished up high school at lakeview in st. clair shores; went on to cmu from there and picked up a b.a. and an m.a. in speech/language pathology. married my college sweetheart in dec., '74 and we will celebrate our 35th anniversary later this year. ('some of the best years of his life' he always says...let's see, there were those 11 days we were married in'74' etc, etc. 'funny guy' (snore, snore.)
worked for a couple years in michigan--at a 'state home and training school' initially--which was about as bad as it gets (public mandate 94-142 had just gone into effect.) we then moved n. of green bay where we stayed for almost 6 years; our daughter was b. there in '80. in '82 we moved to ne ga and have been here ever since. our son was b. in '85. as my husband is also a public school slp, when it came to add't. kids we (he) decided 'anything more would be redundant.' ;-) (a quip from the guy patrice grenat married, actually, who told her the same thing after they had a boy and a girl as well.)
i got sick several years ago (finally diagnosed as 'fibro') and have been disabled since the mid '90s. started doing genealogy after that as a way to reconnect with some extended family and also to keep my brain from turning to 'head cheese.' our daughter had a son in '05--quite the lil pistol i promise--and i am looking forward to being even more of a grandma soon, as they plan to move stateside from germany this spring. that's about if folks; nothing really uber fab or glamorous here, though i am indeed thankful for all that we've got.
what stands out for me as far as mcf memories go...let's see...i recall the weird semi-circular 'sink' in the girl's bathroom downstairs near the auditorium. (also remember dancing around in there singing the 'petticoat junction' theme song...dear God!) i recall ms. wheeler being a total ***** (well, i'd surely get banned from the website if i accurately depicted her with a favorite noun)-- always rolling a pencil in her hand while saying something like 'what's your trouble, bubble?' ugh. i recall lots of people and think the karen jones (lincoln park; if she lived on steel n of joy rd and had a june bd) and linda simpson (coral gables; same area as karen...maybe sorrento tho, n of joy rd) who signed into mcfarlane are friends i knew. (tried to contact you both but had no luck.) i still talk to pat grenat but she's the only one; (she was my maid of honor years ago and is as wonderful as ever.)
in college, a friend told me that deavers (brian) had then moved to grand rapids. think i found an address for john silcox someplace e of detroit one time; he was a real cutie and nice kid. (didn't initiate a contact tho, as i figured it might not be cool with the 'little woman.') ;-) also thought i found gayle lutey (older sis of carole jean) on a yooper post about pasties once, but couldn't even track the right lutey down. figure alan whitfield must be findable per his dad's ford business on telegraph for decades, but have never run across him directly. what/who else? so many many more i wouldn't have a clue as to how to find...especially the women of course.
other things i recall from those 'good ole day...Expand for more
s'...i remember sitting in mrs. robinson's 6th grade class the day jfk was shot. i remember minnesota penpals in ms. nikula's room. i remember the school announcing that grenats' 'finally had a boy.' lunch tables in the gym wall, the smokey inner staircase that led upstairs to the teachers' lounge, air drills in the basement boiler room. i guess more than anything i recall early school days much like tom, betty, and susan in our little white storybook. (apparently i thought it was more philosophy than a reading lesson, and tried to copy that simplicity for years...the kids, the yard, the apple tree etc.) later years were tougher but i still miss knowing what happened to those of us who remained through (at least a part of) mcf junior high as well. i was there all ten years, so i figure there's got to be a few of us left and searching somewhere.
things you might remember about me: (tho most of 'em i'd just as soon you probably forget ;-) but here goes: um, i was overly compulsive about a's; my dad worked for the dpd so i insisted my friends say 'law enforcement officer' rather than cop; i was always of the 'more to love' body type and ill at ease with it; we had a boat and i loved to boat and swim; my parents were super overprotective so i couldn't go on sleep-overs, etc. most times...(well, i might remember that more than y'all would...) geeze, in reflecting, guess i wasn't much of a standout type at all. but that's ok too. i value quality of friends more than quantity and guess i always have.
additional things to know about me--well, muscular probs with the old bod prevent me from hiking, snow shoeing/skiing now like i used to. i have a perennial garden, three manuscripts (non-fiction family pieces) in the works, write some for fun where i like to use superfluous punctuation and i read a good bit, i 'waste' time online most days. we live on a couple acres in an old farmhouse built in the 30s, in a remote mountain area outside the resort of helen, ga. (we rented our first country place in unionville, mi in '76 and been hooked on rural living ever since; odd i guess for such a 'city girl.') i love animals (well, except possums) and kids. still do some canning when i'm able. i think i truly do value the simple things in life--have never had the desire to live in the 'burbs, keep up with the jones' (no offense, karen!) ;-) oh, i love to go to cape hatteras as we have for decades...just absolutely love it. (but please don't try to find me there in my bathing suit; heaven forbid!) double ;-);-) on that one.
always loved to read mysteries (my dad was a detective so it suits) as a kid, which has helped taking clues and running with them in the genealogy searches. sometimes i've tried to apply the strategy when looking for old friends as well. thought if i tried, for example, using a gal's maiden initials, followed by her current last name, and then 3 numerals expressing her birthdate, and then sent it all to someplace like yahoo period com or whatever...maybe i'd be a surprise in somebody's inbox. hasn't worked so far and guess nobody has attempted the same strategy in trying to find me. 'course i always enjoyed using my middle initial cuz it made me dar, and i liked the american reference. can't remember too many middle names after all, so maybe that's where my theory gets shut down in the end...with others anyway. hope to read something more in your profiles soon or whatever. dara
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